I'm a complete tech noob, so please go easy on me if I don't articulate myself correctly. I'm in the middle of a divorce from a black hat hacker. He's deep into what he does, and apparently he's covert enough, because the feds haven't come for him yet, which still amazes me. As a side dish to his cyber fraud, he's taken to cyber stalking me. He's completely taken control of any device i touch (remotely) be it phones, laptops, tablets, home network, even the TV via the firestick. As I said, i don't know a whole lot, and what I have learned is only the direct result of trying to get away from him. Internet and cell companies have thrown their hands up, and said good luck. The local police said they know its happening, because of the proof I can produce, but they don't understand enough to do anything. The state trooper I talked to suggested I change passwords, and hide it under my bed; so yes. That is the level of assistance I have available. He's ascended to the level of being able to manipulate bank accounts, and cell phone records now. Instead of letting me prove this, I get the "She's high or unstable" look. Grapheneos was my last hope for some shred of privacy. I haven't had a private phone conversation in almost two years. Pictures and videos are taken of me when I forget to cover the cameras. I know he steals metadata, and identities, but he does so under the cover of my identity, using my accounts. The short of it is, I'm scared, and I'm running out of options, as far as who I can get to maybe help me. The side loaded system apps he uses appeared on my 5a; However, from the logs, I can see he's having issues he hasn't had before. Its been two weeks, and last night I started getting the same notifications I'd get before when he made his way into my device. "Unknown servers, " This page isn't secure" "You aren't authorized to view blah blah. Contact admin". The webcam feature has a large service log, and the option to disable it is grayed out. There's so much to this, but I'm trying to keep it short. I also noted my messages app isn't stock. In the log it said "untrusted". I was asked if I'd like to update it, but when I try, its inaccessible. Maybe I've done something wrong? I know I need more experience with Grapheneos to utilize it optimally, but I still don't know how he wormed into this at all. If anyone has the time or patience to deal with me, I'd be beyond grateful. Again, please don't respond with anything condescending. I've had so much of that; I'm not asking for opinions about whether its possible, because its happening. I just need help learning how to use this os, so that maybe I can finally stop him, and have a tiny slice of privacy back. Thank you.