veloscipula Is battery life better? I know Google does a lot of battery optimization so this is important to me.
I think so. I've read that others agree.
veloscipula Is battery share available?
I've tried it once using GrapheneOS and it worked.
veloscipula How far does customization go? I love the pixel giving me the option to choose themes (change app color, menu buttons and windows to a scheme). Right now mine is green and I really like the look of it. Can I do this in graphene?
I think that you're talking about the material you color scheming? Like your wallpaper colors change some apps' color schemes?
veloscipula Can I customize the keyboard to be as good as Google's?
You can use any keyboard you'd like, including Google's GBoard.
veloscipula Is the volume slider as useful and niche?
I don't know what you mean, but I haven't noticed any differences between stock and GrapheneOS's volume sliders.
veloscipula Can I make graphene OS smoother and more aesthetic?
Other than the material you thing I mentioned earlier, there's not much that I know of that does this. I personally don't care how smooth or aesthetically pleasing my UI is. I'd say GrapheneOS is a little less visually pleasing than stock, but I personally think it's worth it considering how much safer and private GrapheneOS is.
veloscipula Is the 90hz refresh rate still available and adaptive?
Available? Yes. Adaptive? I haven't paid attention. Probably.
veloscipula Is the camera (video hdr) just as good when I reinstall Google camera?
Google Camera works the same on GrapheneOS in my experience. You can read this section: https://grapheneos.org/usage#google-camera
veloscipula Does wifi calling, dual sim and esim all work? This is crucial for me.
For wifi calling: https://grapheneos.org/usage#carrier-functionality
esim works
veloscipula Are there any features
https://grapheneos.org/features
veloscipula Can I switch back if I don't like it? Does this void warranty?
Yes, you can go back to stock https://grapheneos.org/install/web#replacing-grapheneos-with-the-stock-os
Flashing GrapheneOS doesn't void the warranty.