[deleted] You greatly misunderstood what was said to you.
The project account never said that someone making a donation makes their feature request get worked on. GrapheneOS is an open source project, it doesn't do contract work.
When they said "pay someone to work on it", they didn't mean a GrapheneOS developer, but someone independently. Even in that case, whether the patch can then be accpeted into GrapheneOS depends on whether it's something that aligns with the project's goals, if it's wanted and if maintaining it going forward is worth it/viable.
Even if someone is able to contribute a feature, there need to be enough maintainers around to port that feature to new versions of the OS in the future.