I am not an iPhone user and never have been. I do have an s23 Ultra but I really don't like Samsing's take on Android. I have heavily customized my device though to make it feel more like my own. Privacy wise though. I hate ads and being data mined for someone else's gain. I also don't like having a device bloated full of apps I will never use. Like Facebook and other fos. of social media. I was easily able to rove those with ADB on my s23 Ultra.
In August, I bought my first Pixel ever, which is a Pixel 9 Pro XL. I bought it solely to try GrapheneOS. Even as an Android user. it does take some getting used to. It's just learning a different way of doing things. So far though, I like it. I like having control over my device, the apps installed, being able to stop apps I use from mining my contacts and other app data. I see a massive difference just in browsing the web alone when I see an ad on the very rare occasion.
You should definitely give it a try for few months on the Pixel 9 series. If you don't like it, you can always restore stock Android and use the device as a high value trade-in towards an iPhone 16 or even the 17 when those come out next year.