This isn't entirely related, but just to chime in, if you have an iPhone or iPad, imo your best choice are AirPods which regularly gets updates (when paired to an iPhone or iPad), AirPods 2nd and 3rd generation has Bluetooth 5.0, while AirPods Pro 2nd generation has Bluetooth 5.3. Otherwise, Google Pixel Buds also gets regular updates.
In BLE devices (including AirPods and Google Pixel Buds), the MAC address transported over the air is randomized (Apple)