I found it a bit overwhelming at first. There's definitely some learning curve to it. And I always had a little fear that I do something completely stupid like opening up my LAN to the WAN :D
Back then, I flashed it onto a Netgear X6 R8000.
In the meantime I got another router/5G-Modem from Teltonika (ALTOS CAP700) which is driven by the OpenWRT-fork RutOS and I like its interface a lot more.
Regarding SSH: Only enable it if you really need it to keep things simple. Due to the secure principle of SSH it shouldn't be an urgent security issue, though.
Changing the port is just "Security through Obscurity" although you might reduce the total amount of attacks on the specific port by standardized bots.
Personally, my only remote connection to my LAN is a VPN / Tailscale. From there I can access all my systems "locally" and don't have to open anything else to the public. So SSH is also only availably locally.