aw22 It's healthy in an open source community to have and discuss differences in opinions and priorities. Arrogant dismissal of everyone else isn't helpful for anyone.
I agree it's healthy to discuss various opinions and perspectives. However I do not agree that the GrapheneOS admin account, devs, and mods are being arrogant or hostile. I respect their high standards for Security and privacy, and it shows in the quality of work and continual effort to keep those standards.
Too often GrapheneOS' comments, responses, and criticisms aren't taken seriously enough by those who claim they care about security and privacy. And instead of actually making the necessary changes to improve their product, services, and code. I've noticed numerous times when the GrapheneOS project has noted/complemented those who have made an effort to improve privacy and security, and they will reference third party security researchers as well.