pixelfairy Whoever is spying on your local network
If someone is spying on my local network, the least of my concerns is going to be UP. It's gonna be: how to get them the fuck out of my network.
pixelfairy or your vpn provider can see you contacting the UP server your hosting
They don't know what type of server it is. HTTPS exists for a reason.
pixelfairy If interested, can then check that out, possibly revealing your identity.
What can they "check out" exactly? How are they going to reveal an identity this way?
pixelfairy A public one can see which client is using the same set of services like a fingerprint and follow that around
Exactly like any other web service.
pixelfairy the local network
the "local network" is not an entity. It's a software defined concept, that is usually based on the premise of private IP address ranges (10.0.0.0/8, 172.16.0.0/12 192.168.0.0/16).
pixelfairy vpn provider can see what services your using
That depends on how obfuscated your domains are. This would most likely require DPI, which is unpractical on a big ISP scale.
pixelfairy Whoever is running the service your personal UP server is connected to will see a single users UP traffic going to that ip address.
Like every other web service. I don't understand what you are hinting at here.