CalmBird
Apple has so far been surprisingly strong on privacy. They end-to-end encrypt messages. They hash the user's ID on Apple maps so location data can be used to provide traffic information but not tied to any individual. They have a good track record of not divulging their users' information to law enforcement. That could of course change, but from a privacy standpoint they are currently (and surprisingly) very good. Security is supposed to be stellar as well. Of course all of this is somewhat taken on trust because you can't prove it.
Apple's app store is generally much more strict about privacy and information apps can collect as well.
One other thing I can think of off the top of my head is that all the apps and storage are designed to be sandboxed so apps don't communicate or share data back and forth, something I'm concerned about even on GrapheneOS. There are advantages to that common filesystem for sure, but there are some privacy disadvantages. I guess storage scopes could be used for every app but I don't know how to prevent the inter-app communication unless it's on various profiles. At some point you really are trading off convenience.
I like GrapheneOS (it's what I'm using right now) but if I want a nice camera, I'm using Google. If I want push notifications, I'm using Google. I have to use RCS messaging which means using Google. I like being able to deny network permissions to specific apps but I can't do that to all of them. Does Google steal my contacts list? Are they tracking who I call? Reading my texts? I don't know.
I use Signal for everyone I can, but most people simply won't use it and I can't cut them out of my life. So it is what it is. But once Google is on my phone, I don't know what they can take. With Apple I was able to completely get away from Google so I don't really like that I have to bring it back into my life.