torpp hi i think my device is compromised (mostly from real life circumstances)
I'm sorry to hear that. If you feel this endangers yourself or those around you, please get rid of the device as soon as possible.
torpp i looked at the connections with usb on my pc and see "chrome_devtools_remote" and "jwdp-control"
I see those too, both on a device I've installed GrapheneOS on recently and haven't really used so far, and on my daily driver which is running Motorola's Hello UI.
The chrome_devtools_remote ... line (I don't know how to read the output of netstat -an so I don't know what it describes) shows up only after launching Vanadium (on the Pixel) and Chrome (on the Motorola). I would guess it has something to do with remote debugging, it's mentioned here in step 5:
https://developer.chrome.com/docs/devtools/remote-debugging?hl=en#adb
The JDWP in jdwp-control might stand for Java Debug Wire Protocol and have something to do with remote debugging as well. It is even mentioned in the output of adb --help.
Is there any reason why these two stood out to you and contributed to the thought that your device may be compromised?