Help escaping an ex syncing me to google and microsoft

wuseman

Cos-3
Have you spoken to a doctor about this?

Do you have a carbon monoxide detector in the apartment?

DeletedUser495

wuseman I would not go that far, doctors are just guys and chicks who can't even give you a proper nutritional advice but let's wait for input from original poster and perhaps we can constructively break down each of their claims and support it with evidence if possible.

Rambler

For any account you create, check to see if Two Factor Authentication (2FA) can be deployed, meaning that you and only you can make changes to your account

Meatheadmarty

Cos-3 So much of your reply doesn't contain useful technical information.

"I was waking up each day to a new drama" doesn't help. "I am sane with no mental health issues" doesn't help becauze if you were having a first psychotic break, you would not know.

Your network being insecure could mean that if you have a router, he added proxy to a server he controls and then sent the connections out via VPN. But you should be able to test that. What do you mean by your bank blocked you? Do you mean a cloudflare captcha? Do you mean something not loading?

None of this is technical information we can use. Which is why the whole thing seems like mental illness: there is a lack of specific detail. What dates? Times? How often? What browser? What error messages? It's so vague.

FreeSoftwareFrank

Cos-3 I'm sorry to hear you're going through this, I know it's very stressful and frightening for you. While I do not know enough about technology to give you advice on stopping these attacks, I think you will be better able to research and take care of this if you can find an expert. If I were in your situation, I'd find a therapist who works with victims of stalking and book an appointment with them. I know that since you don't have any mental health issues, the idea of going to a therapist may not seem necessary, but many therapists have expertise working with victims of stalking and cyberharassment. They can help keep you safe from your ex, get your devices clean and safe again, and most importantly, stop the harassment. Therapists who have expertise in helping stalking victims also often know the best ways to get the police to listen to you and take action against your ex. Even if the one you find doesn't, they will likely be able to refer you to a different therapist who will be able to help you.

Blastoidea

Still nothing from OP?

deplored

Did you move away but keep using the same router? That is the only thing that makes sense to me.

W1zardK1ng

Cos-3 few things to consider

Check for any physical devices connected to your network.
Wipe your pc/laptop and reinstall the os.
Login to every single accounts, logout from all devices, reset password, enable 2fa, if possible use passkeys. Use a password manager (keepassxc, keep it local)
Change your mobile number, (jmp.chat is good)
Wipe your GrapheneOS phone.
Replace router or use only mobile data for few days.
Factory reset your car or any other electronic devices in home.
Make sure no one can physically access any of your devices.
Use a vpn.
Monitor your network traffic (nextdns helps).

If you feel like the attacker is highly skilled, you may need to replace your devices. There are some bios level malware which can even survive disk wipes.

Skyway

Seeing a therapist can be helpful for everyone not just people with mental health issues.🙂

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