lovefromisrael i don't have 4g calling..
Hmm. Since you're looking in the right place, it would seem likely to be a carrier and/or SIM restriction.
Full text from a Pixel 9:
4G Calling
Use 4G services to improve voice calls (recommended)
Full text from a Pixel 5A:
VoLTE
Use LTE services to improve voice calls (recommended)
In any case, unreasonable to think that the Pixel 8A itself wouldn't support VoLTE/Vo4G.
If you want to upload a screenshot someplace, I'm happy to take a look. Not sure if it would offer any more clue though.