words i've read me into it before posting, admittedly, on a surface level.
To my current understanding, there are solutions, as u mentioned like encapsulating the packets into another protocol, like https. But for these solutions the encapsulation needs to be reverted before reaching the receiving peer as far as i understand. Those are not an option currently with my commercial vpn service.
The more i read into this, i agree this topic is very complex. And there's probably no 'solution' in my specific use case.
There's currently no need to accomplish this, but i like to learn and try new things, hence this attempt. I've asked my vpn provider aswell now and they suggested openvpn over tcp and port 4443.
I will dig some deeper into this matter, thanks for responding.