This is using messages version com.google.android.apps.messaging_messages.android_20250804_01_RC00.phone.openbeta_dynamic-285853100_minAPI26(arm64-v8a,armeabi-v7a,x86,x86_64)(nodpi)_apkmirror.com.apk
Well. I got it to connect. Here's what I did.
Go into Google account settings personal info phone and take out all phone numbers but your cell. Also turn off auto verify on that phone number.
Then go on cell data only no wifi
Turn off rcs in messages settings
Delete messages app data and cache
Reboot phone
Sign into to the message app and turn it on. Mine now says connected. Hopefully it works for you guys. How long or how good it's gong to work remains to be seen.
Interesting fact, it now says RCS is controlled by the carriers. Not Google. On a little info bubble, next to "connected."