raccoondad This doesn't sound ethical, I don't think anyone is going to help you with your problem now that we know why you are asking
You have no idea why they want an answer to this question, but they didn’t come here for judgement. I suggest opinion is left at the door unless necessary, and concentrate on the answer at hand.
Case in point, I privately recorded my ex boss telling me that he was going to ‘cave my head in’ if I didn’t leave the job on my own accord.
What’s ethical?