not-a-rola Instead I choose to live free and without mandatory accounts
But that's contrary to freedom, you're locking yourself out, while still allowing apple, google to know the number is yours because one day you have contacted your new friend and they have saved you under your name, and then have placed an online order for a pizza and the courier has saved your number with your address. Don't mix anonymity with "not being aware of".
I'm free if I can use what I want without creating a clear link to "real me". And one needs tools for that (XMR for anonymous payments, account markets for accounts). Without them, it's not possible (unless you abandon digital world as a whole)