Let's say you speak with "Friend" in Signal:
You have set Signal to delete messages after 1 day:
You: "Abortion? Yes please, pregnancy is not for me and I was too lazy to get birth control. I don't care if it's legal."
Friend: "Cool! I love abortions! I hope to have one some time in the future."
uh-oh, friend just got busted for doing something illegal. Now they make a deal to snitch on You.
Your friend shows there non-Graphene phone, seized at arrest with Signal. The messages are gone but they see you both communicate with a 1 day delete timer. Your friend is now credible. You also use the same Signal number to communicate with others and the police talk with some friends and learn this is your Signal number, which you registered with a burner. Since it's.clearly linked to 1 phone, they know it's you and Friend that talked.
The police call you: "Friend said you like abortions and had three. Is this true?"
You hang up but it's too late. Your friend gets 2 years in prison and you get charged. Under President Vance's new rules, getting an abortion means punishment by death on the wall. You only got 1, but decide to stay silent.
The government seizes you and does an inspection. You refuse to unlock and use your duress password and they say that's consciousness of guilt. There are abortion scars and they use that against you. You are killed after they convict you of First Week Fetal Murder.
Option 2: Simple X Chat
Your friend is arrested. The police call you and you say "I have no idea who that crack whore is. She isn't even my friend. Do you have proof? Now if you don't mind, I have to go to church to pray, like I always do." There's no number, the messages are gone, and you talk with others on SimpleX chat but they are not linked to 1 common thing.
Friend gets 20 years and Vance cries while eating cherry ice cream because you aren't dead despite havijgnmany abortions.
These things aren't really likely, until they happen. Then... ? Suddenly it's like "Im sure glad I use Graphene and without Play Services and they can't prove metadata stuff, I'm sure glad I used SimpleX Chat." Most dont think they will be arrested, drawn into a war, involved in an accident, in a terrifying situation until it suddenly happens.
Some of these things are a mixed bag because you get real privacy with SimpleX Chat for everyone, even people who aren't cool. I had literal Nazis try to get me to join their group once before I realized they were Nazis and left. They also blocked me. I get the need to track awful people like this, but the government engages in corruption like torture still, so it's just unfortunate. An ethical government would be less scary.
It's fine to use Signal if your threat model is extremely low.