user5678
Circling back to give an update as promised.
I disabled RCS in mid January.
It was not without consequences. I missed messages from work, friends, and even a family emergency. It sucked.
But I am so glad that I did it.
I have nothing but gratitude and complements for the GrapheneOS devs for the current workaround in the ICC authentication in Sandboxed Google Play.
However, I do not trust for a minute that Google or T-mobile (or some other carrier) will not make a change that breaks RCS yet again.
I even made a separate post advising anyone who will listen to wait longer before using RCS.
https://discuss.grapheneos.org/d/32171-free-advice-wait-to-use-rcs-until-it-works-perfectly-in-the-world
For this thread, and those of you still fighting the good fight:
After the 30 days, the RCS group messages in my Google Messages App still had the warning at the bottom: "RCS chat not available"
After I deleted the Google Messages App, and went back to using the GrapheneOS/AOSP messaging app, any group messages that I had were now displayed as a conversation between me and a single other person (a 62-character random string)
So, instead of a group message with Alex, Bob, and Carl and me, the residual RCS chat exists is a message between me and
xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx@rcs.google.com
Obviously, I cannot keep messaging to that group.
On a family member's iphone, their iMessage said "user5678 has been removed from the group"
A group chat with 2 family member iphones and me on GrapheneOS is now working fine with old MMS group chat.
I know someday RCS will just work without the ever-present threat of Google or a carrier breaking it, but I won't be fooled again so soon.