FYI, I did revert one of my Pixel 8's back to stock, after switching my eSIM (US Mobile, which MNVO's all three big US networks) rom TMobile to Verizon. Initially I wasn't successful in connecting, but when I switched BACK to TMobile, RCS connected immediately.
One thing I did notice - the carrier settings version that was delivered to Graphene was dated February 19 - the stock version was dated June 05.
I then tried reverting back to Graphene, and the carrier settings reverted as well. I tried to see if USM could reprovision on their end but they indicated everything is set correctly. It wouldn't surprise me if that was the culprit but without a way to force those settings to update I can't say for sure.
In any case, back to stock on my wife's phone for now, as she relies on RCS for work. Happy to debug if anyone has any suggestions!