user5678 I am no Apple fan-boy, but back in the Steve Jobs era, if Apple had released something that failed this hard, Steve Jobs would have ripped someone's head off.
Yeah, this is definitely in part an Apple problem. iMessage should have an option, like Google Messages, to fall back to SMS/MMS if an RCS message fails to deliver. The iOS devices that check the server, think a user is still on RCS, then send and RCS, will still see that after a while they never get the message received notice. At that point they could fall back. Of coures, Google Message also stupidly will fall back to SMS for individual messages, but not to MMS for group chats.
DeletedUser662 This is unfortunately technically not just a group chat issue. Both times I switched to grapheneOS I had to switch back because of missing critical group chats with iOS people. The second time around it messed up an individual chat as well. What I believe happened is that the iOS user first messaged me by adding me back to a group chat. At that point his phone figured I was still on RCS somehow. Then when he sent me an individual message, it was an RCS message and I never received it. FWIW the individual message was in reply to an SMS and MMS message I sent him after the group RCS message.
Huh, that has not been my experience with iPhone users, when RCS fails. In any case, it's sort of a description of the same problem. iMessage thinks a user is still on RCS and then fails to send messages as SMS/MMS.
It is pretty dumb that the system doesn't update right away to show the user is not on RCS. Why should it take 30 days?
starglider For GOS users in the US talking to iOS people, my strong recommendation is to use bluebubbles.app or openbubbles.app.
From the perspective of the iPhone user, does it appear that they are just texting with you at your regular phone number and they have no idea you're using a bubble app? What happens if you stop using the bubble app, will you just be back in broken RCS hell? (This does actually make me wonder if using a bubble app for a month or two, would convince the relevant iOS devices that you are no longer on RCS and then if you switched back to Google Messages with RCS disabled everything would be fine and back to using SMS/MMS in both individual and group chats with iPhone users.)