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Yes and yes. Will reset it now, but have no hopes for this one. I will update if it helps.
$ lsusb
Bus 002 Device 001: ID 1d6b:0003 Linux Foundation 3.0 root hub
Bus 001 Device 005: ID 8087:0a2b Intel Corp. Bluetooth wireless interface
Bus 001 Device 004: ID 0a5c:5832 Broadcom Corp. 5880
Bus 001 Device 019: ID 18d1:4ee7 Google Inc. Nexus/Pixel Device (charging + debug)
Bus 001 Device 002: ID 0bda:5686 Realtek Semiconductor Corp. Integrated_Webcam_HD
Bus 001 Device 001: ID 1d6b:0002 Linux Foundation 2.0 root hub
$ adb reboot bootloader
$ lsusb
Bus 002 Device 001: ID 1d6b:0003 Linux Foundation 3.0 root hub
Bus 001 Device 005: ID 8087:0a2b Intel Corp. Bluetooth wireless interface
Bus 001 Device 004: ID 0a5c:5832 Broadcom Corp. 5880
Bus 001 Device 020: ID 18d1:4ee0 Google Inc. Nexus/Pixel Device (fastboot)
Bus 001 Device 002: ID 0bda:5686 Realtek Semiconductor Corp. Integrated_Webcam_HD
Bus 001 Device 001: ID 1d6b:0002 Linux Foundation 2.0 root hub
Strangely, connecting it to another android and using bugjaeger's mobile ADB does not list the device either. Windows did not recognize the phone as android device after briefly working with it (with the drivers installed, of course), but windows is a hot garbage anyway.
I tried flashing grapheneOS again (with success), but the same symptoms hold.