DeletedUser713 Haha damn OK take it easy bro, sorry didn't know there were so many iOS stans on the Graphene forum, no offense intended with my apple bashing!
I used to like them, I really did, I was an iphone guy for 12 years and was relatively happy for most of them, but the much lauded Apple user experience has really dipped in quality the last couple years, has been my personal lived reality at least and when my last one broke I just really didn't want to shell out $1k+ for another one. Can you blame me? I got tired of constantly having to spend hours at a time dealing with apple tech support (which I didn't used to have to do) only to be told "oh we don't know what's wrong, you'll have to take it to an apple store to get it fixed in person" and the nearest apple store is over 45 minutes away so the problems, they did start 'a pilin'. And sure, all the hand-holding and idiot proofing is great so long as it all works, but when the tech allegedly sets you all up for success and you wind up losing half your shit anyway because apparently it never synced to icloud properly in the first place for reasons nobody in the support division seems to completely understand, such a collection of experiences tends to sour one's opinion on the whole operation a bit.
Oh, and exporting my remaining data out of icloud wasn't like, a bit of a trivial inconvenience, it took literally days to do even with an apple support guy guiding me the whole time because THEY DON'T FUCKING KNOW HOW TO DO ANYTHING EITHER! I'm not even mad, I'm just like, incredulous at how bad they've gotten the last few years, it's almost kind of funny at this point...The Great Enshitification of the World is all-encompassing apparently.
So yeah, as a disillusioned former set-it-and-forget-it apple guy I thought it would be cool to like, learn how to do some stuff myself and take some responsibility so I didn't have to deal with all that nonsense anymore. So sue me I guess if GOS weren't the right choice for my needs but don't be all mad at me for having a hard time with it as a non tech guy trying a new thing! The learning curve is really steep, ya'll should actually be super proud of me for even giving it an honest go - most people I know just complain and do nothing, at least I'm complaining because I'm trying something out and it's been a giant pain in my ass from day one.
And everything would actually even be totally fine if this were my regular lifestyle, it works well enough for the moment and I do kind of like putzing around trying to figure it out. But I'm leaving soon for a part of the world where most people don't even own a personal computer, they use their smart phones for EVERYTHING and I still run into plenty of challenges sometimes even with an American-based iphone + local e-sim which is about as seamless as it can get. Just coming to the realization that in such a scenario and even after months of tinkering I'm likely going to be in over my head as a virgin graphene user who still can't get his credit card app to launch after almost 2 weeks of troubleshooting. Can't just do everything from a laptop browser there; you NEED apps, commercial ones, many of which apparently fight with GOS, and may or may not be made to work eventually with some indeterminate amount of additional effort - effort which I may not wish to expend as ex pat life in and of itself already presents its own unique challenges, additional ones are preferably avoided when possible. These are not woe-is-me complaints, these just some facts I'm learning and am subsequently adjusting myself to.
So whatever, I got a few more weeks to mess around, I'll try some of the suggested fixes people posted here assuming I can figure out how to execute properly (big if) and if I can solve it all before I leave cool, if not I'll suck it up and figure out which of the other two platforms sucks the least...I'm surrounded by bad and worse options, such is life as a tech consumer in 2026. The horrors persist yet so do I.