Is your phone faster with the esim disabled? Or only the physical sim?
I noticed you mentioned turning off the physical sim, maybe a new SIM would help but maybe not since another phone has the same issue. (Unless both phones have a real old SIM)
Are you able to create a github account to create a new issue there explaining the issue with your 2 phones and upload the log file there?
settings > system > reset > reset mobile
See if that does anything. It'll reset settings you made for the SIMs.