DeletedUser564 [Let's] say OEM Unlocking was the only changed setting in dev options. Still a problem?
The OEM unlocking developer option is intended for flashing a development device. Obviously GrapheneOS users need to turn it on while flashing a device for production use. But, as described above, having it enabled is less safe than having it disabled. I presume that's why the GrapheneOS installation process encourages disabling it.
Obviously each user will do whatever might seem appropriate given any particular circumstances. But that doesn't mean that the GrapheneOS project, or users on this forum, will agree that everything is equally prudent for all users.