Zahox GrapheneOS recommends using pixels instead because of the secure element.
I think this requires some clarification.
If you're referring to the social media posts about how GrapheneOS will manage their signing keys, that is a very specific use-case, involving an app that they will develop themselves, and a dedicated device that is likely mostly or entirely offline.
Using your daily driver to store important private keys would be a very different thing. It would depend a lot more on the threat model and use-case, and I don't think you can make that kind of blanket statement about it.