ZenoZenith I see. I expect Google believes resuming the music is a feature, and I also suspect they believe automatically switching the output destination is a feature. But I admit this isn't something I do, let alone something I have tested on Google's Pixel OS or vanilla AOSP.
Historically the GrapheneOS project has focused on security and privacy features and has not had a lot of resources to spend on UI changes. So if it is known that the AOSP upstream behaves differently in this regard and somehow GrapheneOS accidentally introduced a change, it might make sense to file an issue and it might be fixed. But if the GrapheneOS behavior matches upstream and you wish upstream did something different, that would probably be something to suggest to Google.
Please note that I do not speak for the GrapheneOS project.