There's no indication the GOS developers are motivated by money and would exploit people.
Many of the GOS developers are probably in fact genius level developers who could make extremely good money doing something for a large corporation.
Example: constant updates.
So if the GOS developers were in this for money, there wouldn't be constant updates. Constant updates means more work. Why create more work if you have a secret agenda motivated by money? People who hack for money like hacking but are lazy, that's why they steal. GOS developers create extra work for themselves so people are more secure. It's just not likely.
The constant updates suggest an extreme awareness of security issues to an abnormal degree. If they were pretending to be secure, the updates would be quarterly. Instead it's all the time, each one tested, reviewed, hours and hours of effort, for only some security increase (instead of waiting to do it quarterly).
Hackers could easily fool people by doing what GOS developers are doing but doing quarterly updates instead. Also, GOS is open source which means the code can be read, and many paranoid and/vigilant people with technical expertise use GOS. There wouldn't be a way to easily pull a fast one on the GOS userbase for financial exploitation.
Also, for real hackers, they either go for easy targets (people who have cognitive impairments, gullible people, people with really outdated or bad software) or go for very high value targets. It's just unlikely what a hacker would try to go after. Why break into Fort Knox (Graphene OS) when they are millions of idiots with their doors unlocked and valuables inside (those running Windows 10 with unpatched vulnerabilities)?
It's a good question, but Grapheme OS is designed to protect from the real threats (top tier hacking gangs including Nation State hacking gangs).
The GOS team is somewhat small and very... (don't ban me please) particular? They would never just let some random person do dev work on GOS. It's not like Linux desktop distros where there are so many developers that someone could try to sneak in to do something sneaky, which happened before for desktop Linux.
You could just keep an iOS device and GOS Device if you want to keep iCloud.