Locart my wording was poor than.
What I meant to say was that on iOS you have little agency over what data you send to Apple. Now compare this to the absolute agency over what data you send to Google you have on GOS. It's a better system for privacy (aka control over your data).
iOS is a very secure system with a huge privacy ad campaign that does close to nothing for your actual privacy when it comes to Apple themselves. It's a closed source system and pretty much unusable without sharing lots of data with Apple (watch the videos I linked for details).
There are many good reasons to use iOS (security, design, eco system, convenience etc.), but if you want to keep your data away from big tech (such as Apple), it's not a good option.
Locart You can choose who you send your data to on iOS
You can not, even the permission system for third party apps is subpar compared to GOS.
Locart you also have practically the same catalog of open source applications
This is not true, especially for privacy friendly applications that go against the ToU from Apple/Google. Privacy friendly YouTube clients (e.g. Newpipe, Clipious, LibreTube) are a great example.
Locart The explanation is a little more complicated than saying: one is private and the other is not... it is neither white nor black
Agreed, which is why I always encourage threat modeling and advise against best practice approaches. You'll also have to define what privacy means for you first. Maybe you're okay with the objective drawbacks of iOS but really want the objective advantages. If we generally define privacy as "agency over your data", GOS will generally give you better tools and control, while iOS will generally patronize you more.
Locart In any case, both are advised by the developers, from the fact that I have read.
To be clear: I don't speak for the project. From what I read, iOS is praised for its security and for some specific privacy features against third parties. It also encourages higher standards given its enormous user base. I haven't seen project members recommending iOS if your threat model contains keeping your data away from big tech companies though, as Apple's data collection can't be avoided on an iPhone.