Hi Onion, I bought my Pixel 7a at Officeworks in Sydney Australia. I have set the phone to developer mode and have allowed OEM Unlocking.
I have booted into the bootloader interface - it's a mostly black screen which has a red triangle with an exclamation mark in it and it says Fastboot Mode in red.
I have downloaded the recommended google usb driver and installed it. When I plug my phone in (when it's booted up normally) I can see all the phone's files and directories on my laptop.
Interestingly, when I boot the phone normally and have it plugged in to my PC, if I'm on the grapheneos.org installation page and click on the Unlock Bootloader, the webpage opens up a dialogue box thing that shows my pixel in a list, whereas when the phone is booted into the bootloader interface and I click on Unlock Bootloader in the grapheneos.org installation page, it doesn't show that dialogue box thing at all and it tells me that it couldn't unlock the bootloader.
Any other ideas?
Honestly, if there was someone in Sydney who has successfully loaded graphene onto a pixel and they'd be willing to help me, I' would come to your place and have you load it onto my phone using your computer!