Viewpoint0232 thank you for your advice.
I will spend some time understanding monero, it might be a good thing to know how to use these currencies in future, we never know.
this is so desapointing, I also spent some time checking the privacy policy of banks in the UK and they all say "we might share your data" bla bla bla... they all say that, but then they dont specify which data, although I understand that they have to comply with law enforcement, I dont agree that my spending habits are being "sold"to third parties who then resell them or use them. I use Monzo currently (few years now, I think it is time to remove it as I suspect they sell a lot of data", if you have a bank to suggest that is reasonable to use (not making a business out of personal data) I would be happy to hear, if not, thanks anyway for your advice :)